Envy, unlike other things, has changed little, remains unchanged through the centuries and is based on a sad face the good of others, the desire for domination, role and exceedance another, as it constantly feel the need for what the other has - not only material goods, also successful, intelligence, mode of being and acting, etc. , And impotence to do so. Envy is the mother of resentment, which no one seeks to do better, but that will be envied worse.
This sin capital reaches its fertilization between the people closest, with a preference between brothers and more direct family (we all know the story of Cain and Abel), and its origin can be found at: complex, frustration, helplessness, etc. The envious person is devoid of attributes. Not only yearns for what the other has, but the attribute that envied possessions, he should possess, and, moreover, may declare that it has, but even that justification is not recognized.
often envy, which leads to hatred, and anger, he disguises himself with a smiling mask and their language is expressed in a friendly, bordering on adulation, while the heart is full of resentment. Assumes a virtual and fictional role to others. Usually a big liar who planned to others what you would like to think of it, but it is a jealous guardian of his true self. The envious person's life is not turning on their own reality, but that you would like, on what does not, on what is missing. This is
one of the most powerful cause that is an unfortunate, because those who envy, not just succumb to the misery that makes you envy, but also feeds the desire to produce the evil of others, and reveals a deficiency of the person it does not recognize that it is envious. Do not assume to others, even to himself, who has it. His speech is consistently critical of the envied and often try to convince that he is the victim of everything. Rarely, this fact becomes useful as the disqualification of the image of envy, it turns out, eventually, a total failure. Cowardice is a characteristic of the weak. The more you treat kindly those who hate us, we give you more weapons to betray us. And said "Don Quixote": "We bark Sancho, signal forward." Behind the envy lurks a feeling of inferiority and insecurity, an inability to recognize and acknowledge personal limitations, and inability to feel empathy (putting rather than the other).
The weapon against envy: THE TRUTH. Learning to give and get help, to collaborate and share. Assume we are what we are and try to improve. The only point of reference to overcome ourselves. No need to compare ourselves with anyone.
Miguel F. Jansen
www.cansermiguel @ blogspot.com
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