There are many definitions of friendship. The dictionary of the Royal Academy says it is "a personal affection, pure and disinterested, shared with another person who is born and is strengthened by the treatment," therefore, is the most common emotional relationship that most people have in life. Arises when people find common concerns and there are friendships that are born within minutes of relating, and others take time to do so. Personally, the definition I like best is that a friend is a person with whom you can and you dare to be yourself.
This, in modern times usually does not happen often, because we often disguise our own self, not really showing us how we are teaching a standardized external view on how we should be and behave. It is a barrier for true friendship, and although modern life leaves little time to maintain, and preserve relationships endure significant friendship, I have to thank many people the positive influence through the years has shaped my character and Very few, with whom I share a deep friendship; for true friendship, though scarce, is lifelong.
life usually does not give us everything we dream. Defects and perhaps we are ashamed to know us as we really are, but true friendship is built on the pillars of truth. Plutarch said: "Friends do not need to change when I change and settle when I nod. My shadow makes it much better "because a friend is someone who knows everything about you and, despite this, I want. And if we seek a friend without faults, certainly we shall have no friend.
Hi, how are you? They are words that we speak very often but rarely expect to hear the answer. This is the great problem of our time. We know people need to hear and be heard, they see that we are interested in their concerns. The true friend is tested in difficult times, is one that is on your side when you'd rather be elsewhere. They may be called at any time, any time. They say "have a friend who has a treasure." Indeed, because the time spent with each friend is what makes us important to us and them, because friendship is built little by little, bit of time living with each person. With friends is never a waste of time.
Unlike the family, friends are chosen us and if you mess up you always have the option to rectify. Surely we will get many disappointments, but a true friend will always say nasty things to your face, while the enemy will tell our backs. We are responsible for what we reap. We learn to harvest a healthy friendship. Miguel F.
Jansen
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